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Was I wrong???
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Yeah, i seriously think that you need to determine whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with a man like that. . . If he is hitting you now. . what will be the next step. . .hitting you harder. . .Hitting you more. . .??? Im just telling you the truth, but your relationship does not sound healthy at all. . .[bananna]
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2008-10-15 16:05:24 |
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Was I wrong???
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If you are sure he is not doing this for his child, and I'm sure in your heart you know, then leave him. It is unfortuanet but in the end it will be best. You can find someone who can obsess over you.
Lots of Love Impy
[ImpyChaos]
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2008-10-14 17:10:55 |
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Was I wrong???
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I'll keep saying it girl, you can't be with him if he is going to treat you like this... I think you need to call off the engagement, and maybe just get to know each other better. Michael is an asshole, he has lied to you before, and it doesn't sound like he's going to stop, I really think he's going to hurt you even more if you don't end this thing...[Babeemae]
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2008-10-13 14:37:15 |
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Was I wrong???
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Nope, your man has issues? Why are you with someone who is crazy obsessive over another?
Lots of Love Impy
[ImpyChaos]
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2008-10-13 01:43:18 |
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Ok... Maybe I finally got him to change?
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I'm really glad to hear that you have talked to him. It sounds like he does want to be in the relationship with you, because he has decided to change. I don't think there is anything to worry about between him and his ex, just wait out the month and see how he does.. hopefully now he will actually spend time with you and not on the computer all the time... If he loves you he will do this change for you, because I'm sure many people would agree with me and say that you have put up with enough BS from him.[Babeemae]
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2008-10-10 12:09:05 |
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Should I leave him?!
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Leave him then, hes not worth your time. Be strong.[bananna]
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2008-10-06 16:22:19 |
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Should I leave him?!
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Honestly I'm in the same boat when it comes to talking. I'll tell him something and if he doesn't want to hear it, then he snaps. He freaks out on me for saying dumb things and being stupid. He's said some pretty hurtful things, but next time you need to talk with him. Try a different approach, instead of just blowing up on him about everything, be calm. I'm not saying you aren't always calm because I'm not there. When you want to talk with him, just go sit with him and tell him, " You can get mad, but only after I am finished saying what I have too, and please do not interrupt me, this is important and you can have your say when I'm finished." Make sure that he is not on the computer or watching TV, but make sure that you are both making eye contact. Tell him in a nice as possible way how you are feeling, and what can help to make your bad feelings stop. He will get upset, its only natural, but if he really loves you then he will come around in the end. That is the one thing with Logan, not matter how mad he gets, he does really try. Sorry that my comments are so long. I am trying to help tho . [Babeemae]
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2008-10-06 08:15:12 |
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Should I leave him?!
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I know that you love him, and it's gonna be hard to leave him but he's not respecting you. I know I complain a lot about my boyfriend, but he knows that if hes horny that he comes to me, and porn is not an option. I think it's your turn to do some research.. computers remember everything. If he's not smart, he won't erase the stuff he looks at. Go to the history and see if there is any evidence in there. I'm lucky in the sense that I'm the first real girlfriend that Logan has ever had, so I don't have to worry about stupid little crushes. Trust me when I say I know that Love happens fast sometimes, but you have been together four months, and he's not being true to you. Porn is a form of cheating, and it's gross. I think you should leave him and find the guy who really wants to treat you right. I really don't think that this guy wants to be in a relationship... and I'm sorry for saying it but maybe your the rebound.  [Babeemae]
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2008-10-05 10:19:30 |
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Should I leave him?!
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EW, if my boyfriend ever looked at porn EVER, would kill him.
[paperplanes]
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2008-10-04 03:28:22 |
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Should I leave him?!
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You should talk this out with him seriously. If he still does it dat means its ova.[School]
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2008-10-04 02:18:50 |
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Should I leave him?!
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If you can't trust him then you should leave him, trust is the most important part of a relationship. [MousesEatCheese]
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2008-10-04 00:14:14 |
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Did I Overreact??
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I'm glad to hear that you guys are trying to make it work. I hope that he starts to treat you better.[Babeemae]
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2008-09-28 23:24:21 |
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Did I Overreact??
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No u didn't over react! I would feel the same.I would react the same.I think its normal. My boyfriend made me just as angry and upset not so long ago,actually it was a month ago....We were in bed chatting and we'd just had s..x,then we start talkin bout s..x and i no he loves blowjobs,i dnt mind doin it but nt everyday!anyways i asked him which person wud give a blowjob everyday!( a normal couple)i mean we'v been together for almost 2 yrs and living 2gthr for a yr.Guess wat he says to me!.... He says " My ex" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that was all he said and then i felt like crap,I rolled over and went to sleep,but the next motning and for days to come i was SO UPSET!! I felt like i was nothing and he would rather be with her than me,and just cos he cudn't have her he the settled for me...!!!! Or that he would rather get a blowjob fom any1 and not love the fact that our love made s..x so special, I couldn't have s..x with him for a while ,it was hard.I kept thinking he was thinking bout her....Now things seem to b getn beta...I think... [Roksey]
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2008-09-26 06:50:36 |
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Did I Overreact??
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PORN IS NASTY.
[paperplanes]
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2008-09-26 01:03:11 |
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Did I Overreact??
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ugh. . . men. . . can suck my fat toe!! [bananna]
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2008-09-25 16:06:13 |
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Did I Overreact??
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I just read some of your other entries...I'd like to give you some advice. If you want to talk about anything email me at delcei_ortmann@hotmail.com I'd kind of like to talk to you on msn or just through email. It's more private, and then I wouldn't be saying some things that enter my mind when I read your other entries. Email me.
[Babeemae]
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2008-09-25 14:24:23 |
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Did I Overreact??
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I know you say many times that him looking at that stuff doesn't bother you, but it kind of seems like it does. You have to be honest with yourself. Most women don't like that their men are using images of other women to get off. I sure don't, and my man knows that I won't stand for it. I caught him twice before, and last time I made it clear that it won't happen again! He respects that rule. I don't know how you truly feel about porn, but if you let him get away with to much... it will lead to heartache. I've watched the same thing happen to many friends of mine. The only reason I haven't gone through it is because I flat out told him that he won't disrespect me. s..x is supposed to be a pleasure, not a chore. If you feel like it's a chore then you need to say something. You shouldn't have to feel upset about being intimate with him.. if you do, then he might not be the right guy. To me, you did NOT overreact. Maybe slapping him wasn't the best idea, but next time sit down with him and tell him that your putting your foot down. Trust me when I say this; "If you give him an inch, he will take a mile!" I'm just giving you a heads up, I would never stand for porn!!
[Babeemae]
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2008-09-25 14:00:30 |
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What the f***?!
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whoa. . . Im sorry. . . I wish i had more advice for you. . [bananna]
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2008-09-02 09:57:02 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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hey glad to hear you guys made up!
[mrvolcano15]
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2008-08-15 22:10:36 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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I dnt have the blade anymore. ^_^ [Smurphy14]
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2008-08-15 21:36:17 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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I stopped 4 like a week then I just couldnt keep it and I was really depressed so I cut,so not as much as I used 2,Im trying 2 stop tho.[Smurphy14]
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2008-08-15 20:59:09 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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Thank you for the comment :) but i am fat !! lol keep watching my vids and commenting i could do with your support MuchLove&&Care x x x x x x xx
[PleaseMakeMeThin]
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2008-08-15 17:45:20 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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I know. It's scary to think about any of this stuff. Thanks it feels good knowing I'll have someone to talk to [angelinhell]
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2008-08-15 13:47:52 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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I, personally, don't think sex and love are mutually inclusive. I think it would be fine to "experiment" with another girl (and your fiance probably will, too, as long as he's allowed to join in, and maybe even if he isn't). But don't have double standards. If you expect him to be accepting of your wish to experiment, you have to be OK if he wants to, as well. Also, be sure that "experimenting" is all this is. If you think you might rather be with a woman in a relationship, or if you think that possibility even exists, it's not fair to him for you to marry him without knowing for sure that it is what you want.[jmf1968]
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2008-08-15 12:56:40 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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Hmm, I would say no to it being wrong. Soon there won't be any turning back! I'd say talk to him about it, maybe ya'll can arrange a "viewing" . Either that or jus do it, tell him in a year and be like, yeeeah, I did. I'm sure all he will be concerned about is the details 
Lots of Love
Impy
[ImpyChaos]
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2008-08-15 12:56:25 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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I dont think its wrong to experiement to some extend. . . but at the same time. . . if you dont know what you want then why are you getting married?? i think that it is still a form of cheating even if its with another girl... how do you think itll make you feel after??? just my opinion again.. im sorry if im being harsh.. [bananna]
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2008-08-15 12:54:04 |
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Is it Normal??!!!
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ofcourse its normal! just talk to your 'soon to be hubby' lol im sure he would understand how you feel and would probly let you of to do your experimenting lol
[PleaseMakeMeThin]
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2008-08-15 12:53:43 |
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WHAT THE HELL?? help plz
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Yeah. . . I understand. . . Love can blind you sometimes. . . It can make you do crazy things. I know you love him . Good luck in the future. .. I wish you both the best. And I totally know what you mean by getting f***Ed over. Ive had it happen to me a lot. .. Im just looking out for ya!! =] Anyway. . good luck. =] [bananna]
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2008-08-15 11:37:00 |
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WHAT THE HELL?? help plz
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damn thats freakin scandalous!!!! I would like to tell you to talk to him about it and everything.. but there is no reason for him to be looking at CRAIGLIST at all!!!! that website is horrible and disgusting for some things...just ick. You need to put him in check esp since you are marrying him soon!!! I mean seriously do you want to be married to someone like tht???? Im sorry... Just my opinions. [bananna]
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2008-08-15 10:03:57 |
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WHAT THE HELL?? help plz
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i know your probably really mad but why don't you ask him why he was looking at that? confront him about it idk tho i don't have experience in relationships so... [mrvolcano15]
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2008-08-14 20:33:00 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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Im srry. I hope they're lying. why: -Im depressed -school -friends/pple that were supposed 2 be friends. -a few other reasons. how often: used 2 all the time but I got better,and not as much where: my wriste/any where on my arm. I used 2 do it on2 my leg but now just my arms. [Smurphy14]
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2008-08-13 12:28:54 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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because i heard he doesnt like me..hes just using me.[PrettyInPink92]
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2008-08-13 01:35:12 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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whatever you do i would not accuse him or act like you think that he did anything unless you have proof cause if u do accuse him and he didnt then he will think that u dont trust him and that is hard to get over[memememememe]
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2008-08-13 01:11:11 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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yeah he knows but he just says that im making a big deal about nothing cause nothing would ever happen and i know that nothing ever would but that doesnt mean that he should do it[memememememe]
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2008-08-13 01:06:43 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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I dont think you should right away acuse him until you have more evendence. If these people are not people you can trust then dont. If he denies it maybe he is telling the truth and she is just a stupid bitch like most girls. But if he is not telling the truth then he might be confused and cant decide between her or you and if thats the case dont let him choose. Leave him because they never change even if they say they love you. You dont need that. Hope everything goes alright. Let me know how they go. -shygirl-[shygirl917]
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2008-08-12 10:39:41 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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no! he's the only boyfriend that ive had that doesnt hit me! he's soo sweet and treats me like a princess but those little arguments just stop us from being "that perfect couple"[PrettyInPink92]
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2008-08-11 22:30:37 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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yes it is annoying! im 15 and he's 20 and we have only been together since august 4th![PrettyInPink92]
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2008-08-11 22:18:47 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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well, we argue about stuff thats so dumb! like earlier we were joking around and i said "just know im great like that" he said "if you say so" and it kinda hurt a little bit..and i was like " so ur trying to say im not?" he said "i didnt say that" i said "well thats okay because there were some guys that actually knew how great i was" and he said ":(" soo yea..it was dumb!! but all of our arguments all little like that! and its like once or twice a day..after we make up late that night and start all over again the next day! grrr=([PrettyInPink92]
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2008-08-11 21:59:49 |
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What do I do?? HELP!
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my life is never going to get better[RainingXXTears]
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2008-08-11 17:21:43 |
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